Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Is Love Blind or Just Plain Stupid?!

I've been gone for a minute but I'm back with the jumpoff...

Ok ladies, so we all know how hard it is to find a good man. Not just a man that's good in bed. Or a man that looks good. I'm talking about a well rounded, well educated, got-myself-a- job-and-a goal type of man. If you are from N.Y.C you know the pickings are pretty slim. But I speak from experience when I say there are some still some good ones out there.
But I digress boos..
Fully loaded has witnessed a phenomenon that has been going on for ages. But I feel it is my moral responsibility to speak on this form of Bitchassness. So my question is this.. How far will we go to stay in a relationship just for the sake of saying we are in a relationship. Now before I get all hot and heavy on you let me share a little story. And the names have been changed to protect the stupid...I mean the innocent.

"Sara has been in a relationship with a Michael for almost a year. She's a wonderful, strong women but will go to great lengths for relationship status. Michael was recently at a party and was spotted (by one of Sara's friends, Tanya) trying to get his holler on. No being the friend that Tanya is she watched. And took pics. Michael was fully unaware that he was the subject of covert operation "Your Pants Are Down". In his ignorance and blatant lack of respect also tried to holler at one of Tanya's friends. At this point Tanya takes pictures. (Michael doesn't know Tanya well and only met her once briefly). After much contemplation Tanya approached Sara with this information and tells her that she has pictures of the entire thing. Sara then ask for the pics... Sara and Michael are still together."

Now boo's lets not get this twisted. Fully Loaded is certainly no hater as I have found my Prince. But it saddens me that we as women let things like this go just for the sake of being in a relationship.

My question to you is what would you do? While you think about that... Marinate on this..

Fully LOADED in Style


Hey boo's Fully Loaded here...I know, I'm sorry. Mama left you guys for a few days. But rest your weary heart. I'm back and ready to blow.

So let me bring you up to speed...FL has finally gotten a new phone. Thank JESUS because the old one that I had was nothing short of a piece of SHADUBBY( if you don't know what that is ,ask about it).

But like a kid on Xmas morning I got a new toy, and I think I'm in love. Here's my new addition to the family (but mine is pink).